USE YOUR TRASH CAN

Do not use your mind, use your Trash Can as well.

Rubbish is best kept in the Trash Can and emptied periodically.

Discouraging and destructive comments are best analysed and thrown in the Trash Can.

Some comments are meant for the heart, others are meant for mind to be processed for our growth.

The best place for some comments is the ear, they are listened to treated as trash, thrown away and forgotten.

There are several and better things to think about, why are you entertaining trashes that will destroy you?

There are several people to love and to encourage you, why do you waste your time on those who hate and discourage?

To grow and succeed in life, learn what to keep for your progress and what to throw away for your freedom.

YOU ARE YOU

You are you, not the other person.

Do not let the speed, performance and achievements of others discourage you.

You are unique with different background, abilities, weaknesses, orientation and destination.

Imitate to improve your identity, not to destroy your uniqueness.

You are you, you cannot be the other person. Learn to value and accept who you are.

AN ENRICHED MIND

The mind is a trigger to success or failure.

There several opportunities around but unenlightened and negative mind see them as challenges and threats.

There are several challenges and threats around but the enlightened and positive mind sees them as opportunities.

An enlightened mind is a non negotiable factor to growth and greatness.

An unenlightened mind is a threat to survival and an impediment to growth.

Invest your time and resources in enriching your mind, it is the first step towards growth.

WHEN WE PRETEND…

Pretention is not only retrogressive, it could also be destructive.

In your ignorance, when you pretend to be knowledgeable, you will never know.

On your way, when you think you have already arrived at your destination, you will never get there.

In your difficulties, when you do not hope and work for the best, but pretend all is well, you will be stuck permanently in difficulty.

In your lacks and weaknesses, when you pretend to be strong and well endowed, you will grow in poverty and in weakness.

Pretention is a self deception act, learn to avoid it.

SIT BACK, A SETBACK

One of the greatest setback in life is to passively sit back.

When we sit back, we waste our energy, time and resources.

When we sit back, we normally set ourselves apart from the process of progress.

We cannot go forward in life when we engage in unproductive sit backs.

Get involved, never let your sit back set you back.

SIT BACK, A SETBACK

One of the greatest setback in life is to passively sit back.

When we sit back, we waste our energy, time and resources.

When we sit back, we normally set ourselves apart from the process of progress.

We cannot go forward in life when we engage in unproductive sit backs.

Get involved, never let your sit back set you back.

DESTRUCTIVE SHORTCUTS

Life governed by rules, we ignore rules and expect to be find peace.

Life is a process, not an event, we consciously use shortcuts but expect to succeed over night.

We do not respect order but we expect to fine peace and decorum.

Approved routes are mostly not attractive but they are mostly the best.

Be careful, shortcuts are attractive, they can also be destructive.

WORK TO EARN

Certain things are only genuine and valuable when they are freely given rather being begged for.

Never beg people to love you.

Never beg people to value you.

Never beg people to trust you.

Never beg people to respect you.

Never beg people to accept you.

Let your deeds lure people to respect and trust you.

Let your actions and inactions make you valuable.

Work to earn, do not beg to earn.

RETROGRESSIVE FREE

It is comforting and relieving to get things for free but it has a hidden poisonous effect.

Our range of option is mostly limited when we selfishly seek free things.

We do not mostly value and protect things freely gotten.

We normally waste things freely gotten.

Our zeal to think and to take initiative is dampened when we always get things for free.

We become perpetual dependents when we only seek free things.

Do not only think of the passing comfort from free things, consider their retrogressive effect on your psyche.

MISLEADING APPLAUSE

Do not just be carried away by the praise of others on your efforts.

Some compliments are not true reaction to a good work done but borne out of ignorance and uncritical admiration to a personality.

Out of ignorance and emotional admiration, people may praise you to speed on the wrong direction and to be comfortable in your incompetence and irresponsibility.

Applause and compliments are not always authentic indicators to competence and success.

Do not solely hinge your motivation on public applause but be moved by the usefulness and relevance of your efforts.