When you want to see only perfection in an imperfect person living in an imperfect world, you will only see fake perfection.
If you want to know the true identity of people, do not restrict them, give them the freedom to act.
Many people will hypocritically act to meet your expectations when they are coerced.
A genuine imperfection is better than feigned perfection.
Accept and work on your imperfections. It is a mark of maturity and a step towards greatness.