Do not over-rely on your sympathizers and well-wishers, they will not only affirm your shortfalls and irresponsibility, they will also conceal the best in you.
Do not be vexed with those who challenge you, they might be boring and nauseating but when they are valued and accepted with patience, they will unconsciously banish the evil and mediocrity in you and eventually bring out the best in you.
Challenging situations and times reveal our inadequacies and intensify our sense of need and move us to be creative.
Well-wishers and favourable times normally make us complacent and they dampen our zeal to take initiatives.
May you always capitalize on your challenges and challengers to speed up your growth.