Month: May 2018

AUTHENTICITY, NOT POPULARITY

So far as you have people to support your claims and actions does not mean you are right. So far as people do not support your claims and actions does not mean you are wrong. Your claims and actions are credible, not because they…

ACCEPT YOUR LIMITATIONS

Our limitations are not merely weaknesses, they normally portray our humanness. Until you accept the fact that you are human with limitations, you will never find true peace and fulfillment. It is not only stressful, it is also hurting to strive to do what…

THE HAILS AND HOOTS OF LIFE

On the peak of our performance, we are normally hailed and adored as if we are spotless and faultless. In our flops and mistakes, we are hooted and booted out as if we are fruitless and useless. Be encouraged, focus on your strengths in…

FACTS, NOT EMOTIONS

When sentimentalism and emotionalism clad our eyes and mind, our fact seeking prowess, criticality and objectivity are deactivated. Our emotions are powerful but they cannot twist facts and reality of issues to suit our interest and expectations. No matter how strong your emotions, learn…

DIFFICULT BUT POSSIBLE

The mountain may seem insurmountable at distance but with the courage to start, you can get to the top. Never let the seeming difficulties of the task ahead of you frighten and discourage you. Be courageous to start, you will surely get there. Have…

FREEDOM FROM VICTIM’S MENTALITY

A victim mentality is mostly a defeated mentality. *Do not expect to win when you have the unwavering conviction that you have already lost.* Live with clear and positive mentality but be critical and cautious. Victim mentality kills your confidence, initiative, inner peace, true…

WHEN OTHERS FLOP AND FAIL…

Sometimes, some mistakes are trivial to cause a fall, but the reactions of onlookers can cause irredeemable fall. How do we treat the flopped and those who have made mistakes? Do we condemn or encourage them to rise? Do we deepen their hurts or…

LET YOUR BITTER MOMENTS MAKE YOU BETTER

Under normal circumstances, no one will take bitters when syrup is readily affordable and accessible. *Our greatest motivation to choose bitters over syrup is to get better or improve our present condition.* Never give up in your difficult and bitter moments, they could make…

IN DIFFICULT MOMENTS, DISCERN TO DECIDE

Your tears can never wipe your pains and problems. Your unreflective silence cannot calm the noisy storm in your life. Your anxieties cannot give you any sense of direction. Your vehement complaints cannot overcome your challenges. Your God, your critical thinking, innovative plans and…