Month: January 2018

Carefully manage your reactions

*THE DAILY PILL* *CAREFULLY MANAGE YOUR REACTIONS Our efforts cannot in any way stop the rain but we can prevent it from wetting us. We cannot always control certain actions but can control our reaction towards them We cannot always control what we see,…

Do not be limited by people’s perceptions

Perception is like how contacts are saved on the phone, the names do not always reflect the identity of the person. Perception is like how a file is named on a computer, it does not always reflect the content of the file. No matter…

There is still hope

Life is like a countless nuts in the mouth, one bad but can easily destroy the nice taste of the several nuts. When misfortunes and unpleasant moments are not carefully managed, it can destroy the beauty and joys of life. There is still life…

Proactive-ness, a mark of sensitivity and responsibility

So far people do not lament over our actions does not mean they are not hurt but because they are strong and patient to endure. Many are silent on our provocative remarks not because they afraid of us but because they have mastery over…

Selfishness, Attractive but Destructive

When selfishness rules our lives, morality is mostly determined by our disposition, place, situation and time. Selfishness makes us inconsistent to what is right or wrong. We shift the goal post to meet our aspirations and target. These are not acts of dynamism but…

Caption readers

Things and ideas meant to attract and capture attention are mostly deceptive. Captions are carefully moulded to lure and move the reader to read the details but captions are enough for the lazy reader. We are in a generation where many people convincingly decide…

Personal encounter, not popular perception

When we judge the morality of a music solely by its genre and rhythm rather than the quality of words, we are likely to miss the value of the music. Sometimes, we assess people not based on our personal experience of their conduct but…

Your greatest challenge..

Challenges are part of life, they become destructive only when we allow them to rule us instead of making efforts to overcome them. Our gravest problem is not with our ignorance but when we deliberately persist in ignorance. Your greatest setback is not to…

It hugely depends on you

Success and failure are not contagious, they are outcomes of our actions. So far as many of your predecessors succeeded does not automatically guarantee your success. So far as others have failed does not mean you will fail at all cost. Do not be…

Human beings are not always predictable

Our actions do always trigger their corresponding reactions  others. *In most cases, not those who are unfair, irresponsible and indifferent are hated but those who are responsible, dedicated, fair and firm.* You do not have to hurt or offend others before you can qualify…