Our input normally determines our expectations and our level of pain and hurt of lost.
When much is invested, the hurt and pain of lost automatically become deeper and stronger.
The higher our praise, the higher our criticism and condemnation when we fail.
*When people totally and passionately love and accept us, they will in consequence reject and hate us passionately, when we lose taste in their mouths.*
Do not be carried away by the acceptance and complements in your hay days, expect similar level of condemnation and rejection in your failures and mistakes.
God be with you.