Month: October 2017

Give allowance for human error

One of our greatest source of pain is that we expect soo  much from others without giving allowance for human error. Our greatest hurt normally comes from our genuine and unreserved love for others. Our trusted confidant is normally our very source of betrayal….

Subjective lenses

What is a total trash to you might be an asset to others. What you see as an excellent performance might be an average to others. Do not take for granted, the little things you do, they can easily make you the source of…

In your vulnerability, be critical and careful

In the society where the vulnerable and those in need become lucrative targets of abuses and exploitation by the strong, justice, equality and peace become a mirage. Be on guard, we live in a world full of competition, people are ready to capitalize on;…

Help at right time

Of what importance are razor blade and a hair dye to the totally bald head? Of what use is of corrective lens to the totally blind? Sometimes, our guidance, assistance and  corrections are of less value due the time we carry them out. Do…

Failure, an opportunity to restart, not to blame

Many people find it difficult to face and accept failure. When we think we do not deserve to fail, it will be extremely difficult to accept failure and grow out of it. You claim life and people are not fair because you failed to…

The reality looks nice at a distance

At a distance, the tree in the forest looked beautiful and compact till I personally entered the forest. As a spectator, the game seemed easy and lucrative until I became a player to know the demands and challenges of the game. As a pauper,…

I, you and we are the greatest problem

My greatest problem is me. Your greatest problem is you. Our greatest problem is us. Not others but me. Not others but you. Not others but us  My mentality,  Your attitude,  Our expectations,  My desperation,  Your reactions and  Our choices mostly and heavily depend…

Success and failure in your life….

Many have been able to make, why are you too doubtful of success. Be hopeful. Some have failed severally in their  attempts to succeed, why do you think you are immuned from failure. Be humble to learn. Desperation and complacency are two extremes but…

Do not only think of yourself…

Self-centeredness is one of the destructive weapons in the world. It makes us see realities of life strictly from our limited worldview and  lens. Be a bit sensitive; Your thoughts and ideas might best work for your rise but they can be the greatest…

Have alternative plans..

Good coaches do not only depend on a single formation and strategy, they make tactical variations depending on the strength and strategy of their opponent. No matter how promising our plans, it cannot always meet and  overcome all challenges at different places and times….