We do not have absolute control of how people should react to our actions.
*We live in a world where people judge the quality and morality of a conduct based on the direct benefit they get from it.*
Do not be surprised when people laud you in your negligence and irresponsibility, it might be functional to them.
Do not be discouraged when people blame you for being responsible and competent, it might be a great challenge to them.
Bear in mind, your commendable conducts will not always trigger accepting and complimentary reactions.
Likewise, your condemnable conduct will not always be disapproved.
Learn to be positively firm and focused irrespective of the unsupportive reactions of others.
God bless and keep you.