To be be loved, you should be lovable.
To be approached, you should be approachable.
To be corrected, you should be corrigible.
To be well taught, you should be humble are ready to learn.
*Our actions mostly give people the green light to react and to treat us in specific way.*
Do not expect people treat you in a particular way when you are known to abhor that particular way of life.
Be who you want people to see and to treat you.
God bless and keep you.